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6/15/2021

7979急难故事: 从陪读到家庭关怀 From Companionship Class to Family Care

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From Companionship Class to Family Care
A story from our Crisis Family Intervention Assistance Program​
Written by Aaron Yu
Mdm. Yap, an 80+ year old lady, had been staying for many years at a flat nearby our church, together with a divorced son, two granddaughters, and her youngest son who are still single. Thus, Mdm. Yap still needs to bear the responsibility of educating the two granddaughters who are 10 and 11 years old. As she herself was not highly-educated, so she is not able to help them on their homework. She also can’t afford to pay for their tuition fees. Hence, she has been worried about their education, yet she can’t do anything. She lives on her savings, money from her eldest son and remittance from her daughter, who works oversea. 

How our relationship began? It all began from Companionship Class. Last year, AOG Church Kepong which located nearby to Mdm. Yap’s house decided to start Companionship Class. One of our church’s elderly sister, a friend of Mdm. Yap, spoke to her regarding our Companion Class, as she always sees the two girls wondering around after school and not doing their homework. When Mdm. Yap found out that this is a free class, she enrolled both girls willingly. She felt so happy that she finally found a way to help them with their study and they had really improved. Not only that, she also send both of them to our Sunday School which falls on every Saturday.
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Unfortunately, it only lasted for few months, the Companionship Class was forced to close down due to MCO. However, our PIC of Companionship Class, still cared and showed concern to all the children. She called them up one by one and tried to understand their situation. Only then, she found out that there is no internet facility at home, so the two girls were unable to attend their school’s online classes. She found out further that the family’s financial status was badly hit by MCO. Her eldest son had lost his job, her daughter’s job also affected, thus unable to remit money back regularly. They were in deep financial problem, until there is no food to place on the table. Mdm. Yap said, “I might not be very rich, but I also do charity works (e.g. donation) whenever I can. Who knows, now I need other people to help me.”

When the church came to know of Mdm. Yap’s situation, they immediately helped her to apply for 7979 Crisis Family Intervention Fund’s aid. It was so timely, it helped them to get over the most difficult time. Now MCO is over, her son returned to work and the daughter (mother of the two girls) was able to buy a mobile phone and internet facilities for her daughters’ online classes, also cover their education and meal cost. At the same time, the Companionship Class also resume operation.

Mdm. Yap is very grateful to the church, for helping her at the most needed time. Now she has stable income, no longer needs help. She is also very grateful for teachers of Companionship Class who show love and care to her two granddaughters’ lives and studies, teachers of Sunday School for their teaching on the Word of God that had shaped their character. As a result of these, the two girls who are growing in a family background of divorce parents and cross generation parenting, had experienced tremendous improvement in their studies and maturity in their character. Mdm. Yap always feel thankful and relief whenever she thought of this.

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逾80岁的叶婆婆,住在教会附近的组屋区里多年,同住者有离婚的大儿子、两名孙女,以及单身的小儿子。因此叶婆婆仍肩负教育这两名10岁和11岁孙女的责任。但是叶婆婆本身没受过高等教育,以致无法辅导两名孙女的课业,又缴不起外面昂贵的补习费;虽然,她心中担忧她们的课业,但心有余而力不足。平时,叶婆婆仅靠自己部分的积蓄、大儿子提供的家用,以及国外工作的女儿定期寄钱来维持生计。
 
谈到叶婆婆与教会的关系,就要从教会的陪读班说起。一年前,在叶婆婆家附近的甲洞神召会颂恩堂,决定开始推动课后陪读班的事工。一位认识叶婆婆的教会老姐妹,因常常看见叶婆婆的两位孙女在放学后游荡街头,不即时回家写作业。于是老姐妹推荐叶婆婆送孙女们到教会的陪读班。叶婆婆得知教会的陪读班是免费辅导孩子的课业,便乐意送她们来陪读班。谈到这里,叶婆婆很欣慰,两名孙女的课业问题终于有着落,成绩也进步了。她也让两名孙女参加教会每个星期六的儿童主日学。
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但好景不常在,陪读班开始进行不到几个月,受行动管制令(MCO)的影响,被迫暂时关闭。虽然陪读班暂时关闭,负责陪读班的教会师母,仍然关心这群孩子们的课业,就透过电话一一的关心、询问。一问之下,她才发现叶婆婆的家里没有安装网络设备,因此两名孙女无法按照学校的安排上网课。她也得知叶婆婆家的经济来源受MCO很大的影响。这场疫情促使大儿子失业、女儿工作受影响,无法按时寄钱回家。这家庭的生计突然陷入困境,一家五口连吃饭都成了问题。叶婆婆很感慨说道:“以前我虽然不是很有钱,但常常会做一些慈善活动,如捐助金钱。没想到,现在换成我需要别人的帮助。”
 
教会得知叶婆婆家里的处境后,便帮她申请7979急难救助金。这笔急难救助金刚好在行动管制令期间,帮助叶婆婆一家度过难关。现在行动管制令结束后,大儿子重获工作,孙女们的母亲为她们添购智能手机及安装网络设备,让她们准时上网课,并负担她们的教育和伙食费。同时,教会的陪读班也恢复正常运作。
 
叶婆婆很感恩教会,在她最无助的时候向她给予援助。现在她有稳定的经济来源,无需接受其他的援助。她更感恩教会陪读班志工老师爱心地关心两名孙女的生活、辅导她们的课业,以及藉着教会主日学的圣经教导塑造她们良好的品格。这使这两名面对隔代教养与父母离异的孩子,在课业及品格上有很大的进步、成长。想到这些,叶婆婆心中充满感恩和欣慰。

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